A New Dawn ~ A New Day.....

To be honest, I am not sure how I got here. 2 years ago, I fell in love with the man of my dreams. Before that time, I was drifting through life it seems....

A year ago, I became a mother to a wonderful and beautiful Daughter. Before that time, I knew not who I was.....

Now, about 2 months ago, I got engaged, I feel excited, elated, also stressed and overwhelmed. I feel inadequate to the task of Wife.....

I know I started on the road to an eating disorder. I don't feel hungry, when I do, I eat, but in half portions. I try for 2 meals a day. I am so anxious and stressed. I lost over 20 pounds. Not going to lie, I love where I am at now, though people worry, I ignore all.....

The pressure in my head is intense, the physical pain is high. My mind is scattered. How did I get here you ask? One day I may tell you. But for now, let's just say I am a mess. picking up the pieces of long ago, mending broken and fragmented versions of my self. Always fixing and improving, sometimes improvising who I am.

On days like today, I start anew. Welcome to my world.....

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